
I will take you on a journey through the many different aspects of gay culture - sex, kinks, politics, and more. Together, we’ll explore. I will be talking with friends about their stories and experiences outside of gay conventional standards. Some comfortable. Some not. Conversations that are hard to have and some that might just make you hard. I’m going to take you on a journey of my life. Ever since I came out, I have been trying to find my gay identity and find my place in the world. Being a part of multiple different local gay communities in Los Angeles, I have met so many people who taught me so much and I would love to bring those conversations and lessons, to you. Being a gay person is a wild conversation on its own, so lets broaden the conversation and have those hard talks.
Episodes

Monday Nov 28, 2022
A Hard Talk about… Visibility in porn ft. Damien Cruz
Monday Nov 28, 2022
Monday Nov 28, 2022
I will take you on a journey through the many different aspects of gay culture - sex, kinks, politics, and more. This is season 2 and Together, we’ll explore all these topics. I will be talking with friends about their stories and experiences outside of gay conventional standards. Some comfortable. Some not. Conversations that are hard to have and some that might just make you hard. I’m going to take you on a journey of my life. Ever since I came out, I have been trying to find my gay identity and find my place in the world. Being a part of multiple different local gay communities in Los Angeles, I have met so many people who taught me so much and I would love to bring those conversations and lessons, to you. Being a gay person is a wild conversation on its own, so lets broaden the conversation and have those hard talks.
On todays episode some thing that was long time coming.. I had a amazing conversation with @itsdarrr about him self and why he got him adult video.. this was a year ago and he has changed a lot hopefully we can have a follow up with him and see where he is now.. but it’s a great listen check it out.. going up tomorrow
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Sunday Mar 06, 2022
Sunday Mar 06, 2022
I will take you on a journey through the many different aspects of gay culture - sex, kinks, politics, and more. This is season 2 and Together, we’ll explore all these topics. I will be talking with friends about their stories and experiences outside of gay conventional standards. Some comfortable. Some not. Conversations that are hard to have and some that might just make you hard. I’m going to take you on a journey of my life. Ever since I came out, I have been trying to find my gay identity and find my place in the world. Being a part of multiple different local gay communities in Los Angeles, I have met so many people who taught me so much and I would love to bring those conversations and lessons, to you. Being a gay person is a wild conversation on its own, so lets broaden the conversation and have those hard talks.
On todays episode I have Aric (Mr SoCal leather '19).. We get to know my Dan daddy better and what made him into the person he is now.. We share how we got to know each other.
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Sunday Sep 19, 2021
A Hard Talk about... Fisting Ft. Aric (Mr SoCal leather ‘19) part 1
Sunday Sep 19, 2021
Sunday Sep 19, 2021
I will take you on a journey through the many different aspects of gay culture - sex, kinks, politics, and more. This is season 2 and Together, we’ll explore all these topics. I will be talking with friends about their stories and experiences outside of gay conventional standards. Some comfortable. Some not. Conversations that are hard to have and some that might just make you hard. I’m going to take you on a journey of my life. Ever since I came out, I have been trying to find my gay identity and find my place in the world. Being a part of multiple different local gay communities in Los Angeles, I have met so many people who taught me so much and I would love to bring those conversations and lessons, to you. Being a gay person is a wild conversation on its own, so lets broaden the conversation and have those hard talks.
On todays episode I have Aric (Mr SoCal leather '19).. We get to know my Dan daddy better and what made him into the person he is now.. We share how we got to know each other.
Follow Aric on instagram @mrsocalleather2019
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Sunday Aug 22, 2021
A Hard Talk about... ACCEPTANCE ft. Zavier Cole
Sunday Aug 22, 2021
Sunday Aug 22, 2021
I will take you on a journey through the many different aspects of gay culture - sex, kinks, politics, and more. This is season 2 and Together, we’ll explore all these topics. I will be talking with friends about their stories and experiences outside of gay conventional standards. Some comfortable. Some not. Conversations that are hard to have and some that might just make you hard. I’m going to take you on a journey of my life. Ever since I came out, I have been trying to find my gay identity and find my place in the world. Being a part of multiple different local gay communities in Los Angeles, I have met so many people who taught me so much and I would love to bring those conversations and lessons, to you. Being a gay person is a wild conversation on its own, so lets broaden the conversation and have those hard talks.
On todays episode I have Zavier Cole.. We get to know him better and what made him into the person he is now..
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Monday Aug 09, 2021
A Hard Talk about... Drag Race Ft. Valerie
Monday Aug 09, 2021
Monday Aug 09, 2021
I will take you on a journey through the many different aspects of gay culture - sex, kinks, politics, and more. This is season 2 and Together, we’ll explore all these topics. I will be talking with friends about their stories and experiences outside of gay conventional standards. Some comfortable. Some not. Conversations that are hard to have and some that might just make you hard. I’m going to take you on a journey of my life. Ever since I came out, I have been trying to find my gay identity and find my place in the world. Being a part of multiple different local gay communities in Los Angeles, I have met so many people who taught me so much and I would love to bring those conversations and lessons, to you. Being a gay person is a wild conversation on its own, so lets broaden the conversation and have those hard talks.
Chris Diva and Blair Valerie Von boom Hernandez are judging and reviewing the contestants of RuPaul Drag Race Season 13. Presented by VH1 and logo For the this episode. They will be judging everything from the personalities, and performance!
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Monday Jul 26, 2021
A Hard Talk about... Sesson 2
Monday Jul 26, 2021
Monday Jul 26, 2021
I will take you on a journey through the many different aspects of gay culture - sex, kinks, politics, and more. This is season 2 and Together, we’ll explore all these topics. I will be talking with friends about their stories and experiences outside of gay conventional standards. Some comfortable. Some not. Conversations that are hard to have and some that might just make you hard. I’m going to take you on a journey of my life. Ever since I came out, I have been trying to find my gay identity and find my place in the world. Being a part of multiple different local gay communities in Los Angeles, I have met so many people who taught me so much and I would love to bring those conversations and lessons, to you. Being a gay person is a wild conversation on its own, so lets broaden the conversation and have those hard talks.
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Sunday Feb 21, 2021
A Hard Talk about #SaveRedline ft Oliver
Sunday Feb 21, 2021
Sunday Feb 21, 2021
This is a special edition of Hard Talk with Chris where I interview the owner of Redline Oliver. We talk about how to save Redline. This pandemic has really hit them hard. Its really hit all gay bars hard. We talk about the importance of saving our gay bars
Gofoundme: https://www.gofundme.com/f/redline-is-dying-and-needs-your-help
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Sunday Feb 07, 2021
A Hard Talk about… Slag Wars ft Nicky Monet
Sunday Feb 07, 2021
Sunday Feb 07, 2021
This is a special edition of Hard Talk with Chris where I interview the contestants of The Cock Destroyers' Slag Wars presented by MEN.com.
On this episode I talk to Nicky Monet. We talked about her life story. We got to know her bit better and learn more about her. she told us about his experience on slag wars and got to hear about her thought about the other contestants.
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Sunday Jan 17, 2021
A Hard Talk about… Slag Wars ft Kevin Scott
Sunday Jan 17, 2021
Sunday Jan 17, 2021
This is a special edition of Hard Talk with Chris where I interview the contestants of The Cock Destroyers' Slag Wars presented by MEN.com.
On this episode I talk to Kevin. We talked about his life story. We got to know him better and learn more about him. He told us about his experience on slag wars and got to hear about his thought about the other contestants.
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Tuesday Dec 29, 2020
A Hard Talk about… Slag Wars ft Gustavo
Tuesday Dec 29, 2020
Tuesday Dec 29, 2020
This is a special edition of Hard Talk with Chris where I interview the contestants of The Cock Destroyers' Slag Wars presented by MEN.com.
On this episode I talk to Gustavo we talked about his live story. We got to know him better and learn more about him. He told us about his experience on slag wars and got to hear about his thought about the other contestants.
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